Being Me, either way, what does it matter? I'm not trying to be a smart a, but so what if he tracks you or bushes buttons? Bottom line is he is just stringing you along enough to keep you in the picture. He has had 7 years to change and he hasn't. If you are satisfied living your life like that, by all means, go ahead! If you want more for your life, then you need to make changes, without him in it.