Starsky, you had mentioned in my other thread about the safety of the kids.
While it concerns me greatly about the amount of time she leaves the kids alone on weekends, even over nights 'til... ? I don't know. Until she gets home the next morning...? I do trust that they will be physically OK. I am right here and always available if something were to go wrong. Both know how to get in touch with me if there was a real, safety problem.
But emotionally...??? They will both be scarred from this. How severely, I don't know at this time. I will simply have to be the best dad I can. While they may not know she's an alien, they are certain to notice some changes in her. I only hope they see them as changes and not as examples of how to be.
Don't get me wrong, in most or at least much of the time they are with W, I am sure that they have a "normal" life. It is the "other" times that I hope they get through as unscathed as possible. And that's why I want 50/50, aside from the "pro's" indicating that is the best situation for the kids.
Islander. Thanks, man. I'm keeping up with your situation the best I can. No matter what, for any of us, we need to be the best we can and as you say, rise above the challenge.
More later.
I do find it interesting how there are certain questions that my W continues to not answer. Especially around the trust and honesty. As the alien shows up, she has trust issues, but she trusts me. She feels I've been dishonest, yet she believes my honesty. Obviously, W cannot answer questions that she remains confused on. As shows in the interesting outlook on love and our future.
