Just caught up with your sitch. Wow! You are a strong woman, and it's good that you know it. Your boys must feel so lucky to have a mom like you.
I am still trying to discover who 'I' am. I think I have an inkling, but I need to be independent before I can say. So, a work in progress.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim