I agree with FL. You need to know what's going on.

Also, don't let your H make you feel that issues in your M is all your fault. Sounds like he is lucky to have a W still making love with him on a regular basis ... most WAH's don't have that. He sounds like he wants his cake, and eat it too.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
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