On my way out with the kids to GAL. W went to her childhood friend's wedding alone and another childhood friend (OM) will also be there alone. I'm trying hard not to think about it and I'm just going to focus on having a good time with the kids tonight.
Several days ago W said "this isn't working out, I should probably move out". I replied that If that is what she had to do then maybe it was for the best. She was thinking that she would move in with her mother, but hadn't spoken to her about our sitch. I waited 4-days then asked W if she had spoken to her mom yet, she replied "no, my mom's been busy". I'm wondering if I should bring it up again? I don't want to push her out the door, although It would be easier on me if she were elsewhere, however it would be difficult on the kids. I don't look forward to when the kids ask "where's mommy, when is she coming home".
I don't know what is harder on the kids, living with 2 parents in our current sitch, or living with daddy while missing mommy?
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
