thank you delinquentgirl i ahve decided that i am not going to allow this girl to ruin our marriage which i know was her main goal but she is so not worth it.
I like to think that this was not my fault but the type of person i am i cant help but accept sme of the blame.
my H has told e this isnt my fault and explained his reasonings for this A but to be honest he doesnt really know why he allowed it to happen.
Using my H contac methods with this girl i have told her to stay away it appears she has got the message as she has not replied but at the moment i feel numb i have no emotion and just dont know what to do like i said i dont want to allow this girl to be the reason our marriage ends we have been through some rough times before so i know we CAN get passed this if i want to, but i think the question is do i want to??
