Beatrice, I wish you well in your cancer battle. I had colo-rectal cancer, so I understand what you have been through. Understand this, life is too short to waste on those who aren't going to be good to us. Anything can happen to us at anytime and we need to live life to its fullest. Unfortunately, I see far too many people here hanging on to nothing. I think one should stand for awhile if that's what they want, but it does become unhealthy and I think so many people have and are just waiting around for something that will never be.