Being Me, you have been at this for a VERY LONG TIME....... I think you really need to be honest with yourself and look at this situation realistically. I'm not trying to put you down by saying that. You have tried in every way imaginable and no one can take that from you. I think you need to ask 2 questions. 1. What else can I do? Honey, after 7 years, I think you have done it and then some..... 2. What has he done to make you think he wants to be with you? Again, from what you have posted, it doesn't sound like he has changed much in 7 years........... I think you need to get a lawyer, part ways and start fresh.