If you can get along for the kids, that is a wonderful thing.
I will caution you, be very very careful...
They peek out, they are kind, and just as quickly, they can turn around...
There is a thread in the archives about touch and go's, it may even be on Cadet's list. I am sure someone can find it...
Right now, you are in a very touchy situation with the children. There is a court date in just over a week right?
Do NOT let your guard down right now...
Get that settled...
As much as you might want to trust her...please be careful...
This isn't a house or money or even your marriage that you are talking about right now, this is your children's lives and your relationship with them...
Don't leave that up to chance...
It doesn't have to be nasty, just get something in writing...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox