Your are welcome 4... I wonder if she thinks she is doing a good thing by acting that way, or if she feels guilty and being extra nice is her way to make herself feel better about what she's done... and has no clue her behavior is affecting you this way.
You deserve more than crumbs, you deserve to love and be loved deeply and honestly... a friend who is widow would say to me that her H was the most loving and sweet man, that she'd accept no less, wouldn't just settle.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.