Hey MHL, good for you! Have a blast on that cruise.
I am sorry that your xw and your daughter's relationship is strained. That is something I cannot get my mind around. I could not imagine not being in my son's life.
There is nothing you can do about it, unfortunately. And one day, your xw may realize it and I feel sorry for her when that happens.
I am so happy for you that you have found someone to share your life with.
MHL - happy to read that you are doing so well....I feel that you have the same calmness, strength, renewed appreciation of life and optimism about the future that I have these days....and it feels darn good...we have come a long way baby
We are back in control and dealing with this from a position of strength not weakness. There are still mountains to climb, we still have to deal with our MLC's but it's easier and easier.
I just hope that the situation between your D and your EX will improve...for your D's sake.
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I hold my head high, I have no shame nor guilt in my decision to have a relationship
And why would you. We have done all we can for our MLC's...it's OK to start living again....
"Don't worry about a thing, ‘cause ev-ry little thing gonna be all right."
All the best to you my friend
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
Ok....for a new name..... Still have that goatee? How about MisterHairyLips....JK that sounds kinda gross.... MyHappyLife....MHL works lots of ways!
Enjoy the cruise!
Hey WhatNow!!!
Thanks for the name change suggestion!!!!!
You just motivated me to change it!!!
I am still going with MHL but I think I will go with your suggestion as to what it stands for now......
My Happy Life
As far as the cruise goes....it was great!!! and I was able to grow back my goatee, but sadly it had to come off this morning as I returned to work
The bank I work for now is much more conservative so the goatee had to go when I took the new job last fall.
I will create a new profile in the alt so I can share pictures once again...I felt the need to "un-friend" some friends that were screen names only so as to maintain "my happy life".
While my girlfriend is aware that I am part of an online community that has helped me tremendously, I still want to keep that for just me.
Cheers
I will reach out soon to everyone soon.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
I did not slap you'r limpass wrist MHL, I was confirming your assumptions.
Bring you a Corona?
You sure you don't want something a little stronger like a Appletinni?
That would be Eric's drink of choice.....
Remember who wears the tutu's around here.
If it is a little stronger that I need then maybe you could spare some Bulleit with a spash of ginger ale.
So I guess in the future I might suggest that a certain high profile, 7 Time Tour de France winner, with one testicle has a good view on detachment that is available on-line?????
Is that too specific????
Maybe a more general reference......
You may want to check out what cyclists with one testicle have to say on the matter of detactment.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.