WAW, and a bisexual open marriage

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Shooting straight here but as a woman my take is she's not attracted to you because she has no respect for you. She pushes the line to the most selfish extremes and you let her. She's gotten you to agree to an open marriage that's truly only open to her, she's got you paying the bills, she doesn't care what you feel or request and she shows little kindness. If you don't man up, set boundaries, do 180s and earn respect she'll be gone. She may go anyway but you've got to get your own self respect back. You obviously love her and would do anything for her, a man of honor who serves his country. Buddy, show her what she's risking losing. You've been to war, you can do this.