Twink, you are a class act.

Of course you feel compassion, you are a special lady who still cares for someone you share a long history with.

As for your h, this is, as you know, all part of the process for him. Nothing for you to do then let him continue through it. Do what is best for you.

I think you handled yourself beautifully, with dignity and grace.

Enjoy your full life. Wedding plans must be fun to make!