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She sees me as the one who will give up on the M because of my hurt and pain.


Well, this is her chance to learn that hurt and pain doesn't make everybody run. I tell my D's stories (about all kinds of stuff) and a recent one was about Cabanatuan. If you like history, it's good stuff. Anyway, my point is that for all the pain and suffering, everybody didn't run.

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She of course does not know that it was H who had brought up D or S as I never told her about that.


My D's were never told this either. I would also tell you, that they know. I would also tell you that I took most of the hits from any anger that kids displayed. I was the safe one. Also, there is something about girls and their Dads.