How much longer in Separated?

[jon2911]

I just didn't say anything. I was just listening. I had already made it clear that though it would take a lot of work, I still think we should stay together.

Great meeting with my C today. He says W is, with finality, choosing her family over me. And when the D is final, no more phone calls, no more visits. That the wife thought D would be freedom, but she could still have benefits when needed. He's seen things turn around at that point if the husband draws the line and says "you made your choice". Several cases actually. MAN that would be hard. REALLY hope I don't have to do that. I would pray about it a lot first.