Been two months since an update and guess what I realized. Yesterday was my 1 Year ANNIVERSARY for my Divorce. Good thing I was out with a girlfriend having a glass of wine when it dawned on m! So a clink of the glasses when I told her and then moved on to another topic.
He is still an absent father and it is affecting the kids. My son is in Counseling and is diagnosed with Inattentive ADD, depression and anxiety... Yeah DAD!
I found a letter that my daughter wrote to her father in her room, explaining why she hated him but the most profound part of the letter was this last sentence: "Your such a MONSTER, except your not a scary classic monster who destroys towns, your a MONSTER who destroys relationships".!!!! UGH I seriously hate him for what he is doing to these wonderful children of ours.... I guess I should say mine now!
I just honestly want to call him a Douche Bag once to his face! But I won't, I have never yelled nor cursed him since it all began and I wouldn't start now. Not that there is any communication anyways.
The good news is the check is on time every month with out fail. That's his ticket to feel good about himself!
On the relationship front FEG and I are still dating and it a great place in our relationship. We will be going to Cabo together in about a month from now to spend a week together! Very excited to not have to worry about kids, it's rough not getting a break but I am glad I am not missing out. I love my kiddos very much.
I hope you all are doing well. I'm still in school. I still read everyone's situations just don't post much anymore.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
