My W will not communicate other than reacting to negative news from me, or when we talk about kid topics.
I could say my wife is a WAS. I could say she's MLC. I could say there's at least EA, if there has not been PA. But none of that matters at this time. I simply want to open the lines of communication with her and with feedback from her, finally know where she stands. She could just be stuck on one or two things that can be resolved, that we can work out, but without that, we move towards D.
So I'm wondering if piecing might be a way of opening up communication or once I figure out how to open up communications, if piecing is a way to take one thing at a time, in it's time and context, to work towards R.