I 'm at 5 months and it feels like an eternity. Much Like punchy I can't leave... or I won't. I need to be there for my kids. SIC my w seems to have moving goalposts with me. Nothing I do is what she wants. Try reading the book Five Love Languages. I employed some of the suggestions in the book and I find it has opened some dialog with my W, some conversation not about the kids.
H 37 W 38 M 11 T 18 D 4 S 10 Bomb 27/11/2010 Separated still living in the same house 1/1/2012 No D Papers No Separation Papers