2step, How can she not KNOW that you are the right option?

Now we have only seen the positive 2 step, the one that is kind,smart and patient.

I dont know what you were like before but although people are capable of change, I cant see that you were a total pr1ck in the marriage but I guess one never knows.

Like everybody is saying, I dont think you are too bad off. There is no OM and she questions her decision big time.

Just a matter of time 2 IMO.

Stay the course dude.

One thing. She KNOWS for sure you want her back obviously. Maybe stay away from talk about remarrying, even in jest the way you say it. I think she wants you to honor her decision to D because it was a huge decision. Let her have her D but start with a new R. One were marriage isnt in the equation.

Maybe you never Marry her again but you stay together outside the legal paperwork.

Just food for thought.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11