Bernita, I am a recovering verbal abuser as well. Please, please, please, try to convince your husband to read patricia evans books and also come to our site. It is great that you both have started communicating. But there are triggers that will cause your H to slip back to those problems he has. JTG and i both know, we have been there. Keep safe, and our prayers are with you.
Bill
M - 42 W - 41 Married 9 years July 24, 2010 WAW moved out 8-9-10 2nd Marriage for Both S 2 SS 13 from W first Marriage
