Ok. Not so good. I can't help thinking about all of the lies now. She told me that my oldest needed a tutor in math. That's why she took over $1000 out of our account (that has been closed now). We never discussed the need for a tutor and I thought we were coparenting at the least.
Co-parenting is most likely out the window for now. The best you can hope for is to parallel parenting. One set of rules there, and one set with you. Hopefully, the align somewhat...
Originally Posted By: Bolt
I emailed the teacher and asked how my D was doing and she said she was doing fine. So now I don't believe a word my W says.
MLC stands for Manipulate, Lie, Cheat....
Remember that, and you will be fine....
Originally Posted By: Bolt
I'm having a very hard time knowing another man is in their house. He's cooking them dinner, hiking with them in the park, playing with them, taking them for ice cream. This is a guy that THEY JUST MET! and he is seemingly taking my place.
Don't let those monsters in your head out to play...
Truth is, you have no idea what is happening.
You are their Father Bolt....NO BODY will ever take place of that. NO BODY !!!
Not everything is as it seems.
Originally Posted By: Bolt
I did talk to FIL yesterday and this morning. He has always been a very easy going yet fair and honest man. He reached out to me yesterday and I was very appreciative. I told him that I'm sorry this all happened but he had to believe that I did everything to make this work. He did agree to that. He was also very upset that his daughter was saying bad things about me to the girls. I told him this morning about another man living in the house and he was very upset.
Easy with this Bolt....Blood is still thicker than water.
He is not your support system. He is not a fly on the wall for you to get information from.
This is still his daughter you are talking about. Think of how you would support your daughter, poor choices or not.....
Originally Posted By: Bolt
She's losing everything right now. I want to take those girls and save them but short of going there after school and taking them, I don't know what to do.
