I am thinking she needs to know I will not be with someone who cannot keep her word or who is unwilling to work with me.

I think she needs to know that before we could ever be together again these things will need to be addressed.

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?