After rereading this last post, I'm guessing this is what detachment feels like?
What's next, DBers?
NO. Detachment is when what she says, does, acts like... doesn't make you ask what it feels like. You just let her do what she wants to do and that includes her with your kid.
Detachment is when you are like..."Okay, you do what you want...feel what you want, I can't fix, control, or persuade what you feel". If your kid is in danger, that's a different story, but if she is a good mom...you let it go.
Detachment is almost NO matter what she does....you don't base YOUR life upon it. You move the opposite way.
