Gave her lots of space, went to the room did some things I had to do. I went to the living room where she has been sleeping (by her own choice) to put a book away. She tried to say something but stopped. I asked her to go ahead and say it. She said: "I am 99% sure we wont make it by the end of the year" I tried to tell her that I understand and agree that this is a terrible situation. To which she replied with her common. "It will suck for me more I have nowhere to go". All I could say was I know it will be hard. Got quiet and she asked if I needed anything else, I said no, and she went with me to the room to get some of her hygiene stuff. As she left the room, I asked her if I could ask a question. She said you already did (a common response from her during happier times, but her mood was not happy) So I said can I ask 3 questions. (With her that counted as one of the three. I said: I could tell today that something was bothering you as soon as I got home, what was it? her response: "I was tired..." I tried leaving it at that, but then she asked what my other question was. I tried thinking of my feet and asked: "Is there anything I could have done to have made things better?" Her response: "If I knew we wouldn't be in this situation" Then she left.
Should I worry? or am I getting more common WAW talk? What CAN I do to make things better? It's a little hard to DB when your partner can't communicate the solutions they need. Or for that matter I myself can't understand what she is trying to tell me.
