right direction?

[cat03]

That's the main reason I keep things at arms lenght with ex, not that he hasn't helped by marrying and now divorcing the witch from heck, but my distancing helped me heal big time.

I was married 10 yrs, knew him for 12, we separated for good Jan 08 by the end of 2009 (2 years) I had no feelings of any kind of him, I keep convos short and to the point (we have 2 kids), and I actually dislike when he starts his long convos about work, etc etc... not interested.

If you still have feelings for her and she is with a bf, you might want to rethink what good it does to keep reading into things by being too close to her.