I think you missed your calling as a story teller.

One thing that does stand out to me, she continues to say "I'm not where you are". Probably because she isn't!

I know your D now, so there is no busting, you are now courting the women that you love. I think you did great, but now she has to let all this sink in for a bit. Hopefully she calls Jody, and hopefully she reads the book. Both could really help her.

Just remember how far ahead of her you are. Don't push too hard, she needs time to catch up.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.