This site was my life the summer of 2009. I got up and spent hours here looking for insights. I knew pretty quickly my marriage was probably over and a year later I was divorced.
May 23 will be the 2 year mark of him leaving for the OW and the beginning of lies, lies, lies. My life is so rich, so full, so fun that I love every day. In my case, I would not change one single thing. I needed to have my world rocked for me to grow and change. I now have the friends and the life I was always meant to have. I can look in the mirror and say I am happy to be where I am. Yes, it takes time and it's worth every ounce of pain. And, I remember the depths of despair and the sheer agony of losing my marriage.
Like you, I am happy and continue to do things I never thought possible. Yes, our journeys have just begun....
All the best to you!!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
