Zen,

Just to be sure it's clear, I could never have had that conversation if the only path I had available was forcing things to work.

If I am equally comfortable with it not working, I believe it really clears a space where we she feels it is safer to interact.

cheers.

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?