And best of all, being good with the possibility of us never reconciling or getting back together, actually opens up the possibility of reconciling and getting back together!
Just curious BM...what do you mean by this? It's an interesting choice of words....
Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
The reason I say that is because I have come to understand that as long as I am believe and insisting there is no possibility it can fail, then I am compelled to constantly keep on forcing everything to fit and scrambling to hold it all together.
In other words, if the possibility of failure does not exist for me, the only course of action I have is forcing it to work.
But that will never work.
The only thing I believe will work will be my commitment to the path without attachment to the outcome. Maybe not an easy path, but it's one that feels good to me right now.
Especially based on the conversation that she and I had this morning. Best little talk that we have had in years. I came totally clean with some things that had been upsetting her, some things I felt totally responsible for, and we had the best little conversation that we have had in years!
Hang on while I go and grab a copy of that conversation for you. Maybe it will help.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
