Waiting to respond until you finish posting. But I will say... WTG for keeping your cool and DB'ing through the conversation and validating her. I know that had to be hard.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11