It has been a long time since I have posted. Just been lurking now and then. I have been seperated for 5 yrs and divorced for 4. Been through the rebound dating and luckily never got serious about anyone. Wish I could say I was over ex but I an not there yet. I am pretty lucky in a lot of ways. I have a good job, I get along great with my kids and we have good communication, good health, I get my fair share of attention from the opposite sex, I'm getting better at playing my guitar, however, sadly I am still on this rollercoaster. There are times ex goes out of her way to be nice to me. There are times I even get the sense she misses me and then she goes dark again. I have tried not being responsive back, being nice back and nothing seems to make a difference. I know OM not as good to her as I was or would be, but it is her life and her choice. I also learned from dating that you can't make up real love, it has to happen naturally. So, I carry on, not getting into relationships I do not belong in and trying to finally let her go. I also have learned when you do find a true love, take very good care of it. i will certainly do that if I am lucky enough to have lighting strick me again.
