I'm also getting the blame for things. My sons are almost grown and they really don't want much to do with my W. Of course, it is my fault for "brainwashing" them against their mother.
To MLCers, we (LBS) are evil and wrong.
Strange days buddy. Do what you think is right.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13