Standing up to the punches

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WOW, 3 people telling you how to act!
It's easy to think your right when you have others thinking the same way.
How's her parents M going?
Does her mom control her dad?
I'm guessing yes.

Yup, FIL usually goes with the flow.

Thanks Gr8. Yup, everytime i think that i'll have to move along and if wife is interested then she should decide, i get scared of 'what if wife does not...' and i capitulate to her feelings. Yup, i do have ways to go to work on myself first.