Standing up to the punches

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I think it is so funny. We were married for 11 years and lot of stuff happens. It is very strange that only after wife started the divorce process did i actually start looking back at how i let myself get treated by wife and her family. It is pretty bad actually.

Awareness is the first step. Now don't allow them te=o treat your that way any more. Set your boundaries to protect yourself.

Every single time we had an issue and when wife told her parents, her parents would call me up and tell me to 'just adjust and not rock the boat'. I always complied. Now i am thinking that was the reason my wife thought that everything she did was the right thing.

WOW, 3 people telling you how to act!
It's easy to think your right when you have others thinking the same way.
How's her parents M going?
Does her mom control her dad?
I'm guessing yes.


I am in the same situation as you are right now.
The thing is,
I told my W she has issues. That only when she ready to address them will there be a change.
So admitted to me she knows she needs to work on things and said she would be willing to discuss them with me.
I haven't decided if I want to open that can of worms.
If I do it will be b/c I want my kids to have a good mom.

Not to save the M.


TCB with the contract.

I am moving forward in the same direction.
If she wants to join me in the ride of life, she will have to do a lot of checking up to do.
No looking back.