Sitting at home with myself, part 2

[Redo]

I'd say act as if and celebrate your anniversary. I feel that if you do not, then you are recognizing the fact that you guys are not close and believe me those feelings can compound and before you know can drag both of you down. I've been on this path.

Say you plan something nice. It could very well be that wife might get mad initially at you. But she will realize later on that you made effort and try to enjoy the moment. That will feedback and both of you will end up having a good time.

Right now i think you should minimize the number of 'bleak' or 'bad' days or moments you have with each other.

my 2c.