Standing for my live-in MLC'er/WAS

[angel61]

Thank you Grace. I wish I had a way to communicate more with you as you are probablty the only real live person I am in contact with who has shares my experience.

I will try to see the movie.

Cutting is in the limelight now with what happened to Demi Lovato. My D showed it to me last night.

H on the other hand has been asking me for more information, about what I know regarding D's cutting, what we have talked about, so I let him know. I did it in a non-accusatory manner, very factual, but of course no matter how I present it, it will highlight our dysfunctional family dynamics at this point. I do acknowledge my share , which is actually the more direct one with regards to D. I realize that since D does not know the whole story, when she sees me weak, she interprets that as me giving up on her dad! That is why she shared with me her cutting story, she seems to be actually trying to convince me that I should do the same, so I can bear my pain inside me and not further hurt the status quo! Folie a deux...

Let me know of the books you have read that are helpful.

I have posted a message for you on the FB DB site.

T. Anjel/Angel