One more thing. I called the MIL last night to politely ask her to refrain from saying derogatory things about me to the girls. I said it was only hurting them not me - the intended victim. She backpeddled and said that THE GIRLS asked her and she simply gave them answers. She said that I wasn't a bad guy but that it was the alcohol.

Unfreakingbelievable!

THEN - I talk to my oldest later that night - she called me on her phone. She said that MIL and W got the two girls together and asked, "Who broke the pinky swear?" She basically bullied them!

I need to do something about this. Any help? PLEASE???

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE