Some questions for you. When did your youngest leave your home? Is your W going through menopause? Did you feel as though your W truly forgave you for your betrayal?
After you answer Jack's question, I like to ask if there was a significant happening in your lives or your W's life in the last 12 to 18 months?
Can you tell us what your W's childhood was like?
Sorry for all the questions and we're not trying to be nosy here, but the more we know about your sitch the more advice we can offer.
How are you doing with all of this? What are you doing for yourself?