You have know idea what he was doing and, honestly, you don't really need to know right now as you have yourself to worry about. Your friends, of course, will add a lot of drama and get you worked up without meaning to. Ignore them. Forget all this stuff. Just concentrate on getting yourself back on the right track. If he thinks you'll attack him every time something happens, you'll just push him further away. Remember, do what works, don't do what doesn't.
A guide my DB coach gave me may help you. She said, "Ask yourself, will what I'm about to say to my W bring her closer, push her away, or neither? If it doesn't bring her closer, don't say it. Period. Always be bringing her closer." It may help your sitch to apply that rule with your H.
Don't be your own worst enemy. That's my job ;-)
"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." - Maria Robinson
M: 45 WAW: 36 T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9 ILYBNILWY: 6/2010 W left: 2/2011 W back: 2/2012
