OMW - You are in midst of the angry WAW. Fun, huh? I do like what your DB coach said concerning the anger and complaining. These are actually good things. She obviously cares.

I am at a point in my sitch where our couples therapist has called my W out on her anger. My W told us that she didn't care anymore and was simply numb to it all. Therapist told my W that she had just explained how angry my change is making her right now. Therapist said that it can't be both.

Just keep doing what you are doing. I would careful with trying to get the last word in as she walks out. I can how that would produce the response you received. Whether she believes it or not, don't give her the opportunity to be more upset as she leaves. It will simply justify her emotions.

Happy to see that you are having such a good time with your D. Be the best father you can be and take care of yourself.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated