I too have all 4 of my kids, which I know allows her to go out after work and enjoy a semi single lifestyle without kids, I feel she should have more responsibility too, but it's probably best for the kids to be with the more stable parent... Who is focused more on their best intreat and safety then OM... it concerns me greatly to have all these OM around my 3 daughters
I just caught up on your sitch. Sounds like your W and mine must be sisters. I got home from work tonight and W informs me she will be going to the hockey game tomorrow night. It seems a Guy friend of hers had an extra ticket. My reply "have fun". I have a township board meeting tomorrow night and a scout meeting, so I'll be bringing both kids along. It's fine with me, I'm detached and focusing on the kids. On a positive note, as part of my 180 I did the income taxes, first time in 13 years. W had always done them, but I don't trust her with my money any more. Last year she took the refund and went furniture shopping without asking me. In this new reality where she is primarily thinking of herself, I'm keeping a close eye on the money.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
