Sparks This probably won't show up for days so bear with me. As I read your post I actually felt optimistic for you. I know it's weird but I have actually heard the same from my W. Just remember that she is angry because she may be having second thoughts because of all the good changes. Remember she had a fairy tale of a life planned and your changes and reality have made her think twice prolonging her uncertainty and pain. So naturally she resorts to her old scapegoat which is you. I know it's hard to hear but don't get dragged in let her throw her fit, and be there with a smile when she calms down.
