Remember that friends do not like to see you in pain and most people take the easy way out. They do not realize that you are so strong to make the decisions you are making, and you choose to work hard on your M vs. just throwing in the towel. I think a lot of people think about D like suicide: a permanent, quick solution to a temporary problem. Don't let others try to convince you that you should off your M, especially if you want to keep it.
We are here to support you in your decisions. We are all in the same boat.
