Take The Long Way Home...

[islander]

I think it is fair to say she is both a mess and playing you at the same time. I don't think you can seperate the two at this point. I also think it is ok for her to feel scared. I don't hink she was necessarily scared of you, bit trying to blame you or guilt you.

Let her feel some of the pain. I am not saying to be mean, just let her feel it. We all know bow much you have been hurt