It is amazing, the feeling of her moving. Enjoy it. You're going to meet her soon!
Don't worry about the odds and ends. That happens. It's nesting; it's biological. I did that too and never felt prepared, but I was in the end. You'll be fine.
Try if you can to just really focus inward right now. I know the stuff you have to do, your H, the allergies, but there is so much empowerment in this final months of pregnancy, in the birthing process itself, and in becoming a new and beautiful mom to a baby girl.
Just breathe that in a couple times a day through all the chaos. That is yours - and it is hers - and no one or nothing can take that away from you.
No matter what your H decides or doesn't decide, give this to yourself. With or without him, savor that little arm. That little foot movement. One day, she'll have a chubby arm in a dress and you'll think "Gosh, she used to be inside my womb!"
It's an amazing time, and while I'm really sorry your H is creating this stress in your life, just try to turn it into a leaf and blow it away. "For now." It's not forever, but just for now.
Ground. Relax, eat something warm, tea, curl up. Talk to her and tell her you'll be ready for her when she is. Send that love to her and yourself right now.
