Originally Posted By: kml
Why DON'T you start going to the gym for four hours?

I'm serious - ever wonder what would happen if yoiu started mirroring his behavior? If he goes out - you go out too and be gone longer. Come home after him. Let him start to wonder and worry a little bit about where you are.

Go to the grocery store and come home late - without groceries. lol!


I have done that and I am not a good liar....always come clean about where I've been! Need to work on that skill perhaps. smile


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14