It is so hard to be presented with the real reasons why your spouse was not happy in the relationship, you having no idea they ever existed, not ever being told that there was unhappiness to them, now understanding that you could change and improve just by knowing them, and then being told that it is too late. How is that possible? Just give me a chance!
I just find it so difficult right now to know that these are the reasons why my W felt vulnerable enough to have an affair and destroy our family, and I never saw it coming.
These are things that are difficult for me as well. If I only would have known. How did I not see it?
Hindsight huh?
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
