You guys are awesome. Thank you so much for your quick reply.
Jack, thank you for breaking it all down for me so clearly, and for stating that anything but acceptance is promoting my want over hers. Now I can totally see how doing anything else would just be more of the same old stuff I did before.
Mach the path I am on is called integrity and self-love. No longer to be confused with the path of doormat and self-loathing that I had been on all my life.
Yes. Acceptance is The Way.
So how about this as my response:
"No worries I totally understand."
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.