(TALK ABOUT DAMNED IF YOU DO, DAMNED IF YOU DON'T!)
She is still in contact with the other man! Don't be naive.
Naive? Please... It would be really difficult to go through life without the ability to have trust in people... at all. If she is still in contact with OM, I have no idea when that would be. She is either with me, at work, or taking care of her son at all times.
I'm on the lookout for signs of what you are saying McQueen, because it is only natural. But I'm not going to act like a paranoid freak either. As Bond said, I have absolutely no reason, let alone a good reason, to think that this is true.
She has been honest with me up to this point. If I can't trust her to continue to be so, then I shouldn't be trying to reconcile my M at all.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce