My STBXH has been so secretive about everything. He won't give me or his own mother an address of where he is living.( I stopped asking months ago) he just keeps his whole new life a secret.
I recently found out the address of his new place and found out he is living with his GF. He still has boxes and boxes of his stuff here that he just won't take with him. How wrong would it be of me to drop off these boxes at his place while he is at work. 1. It would let him know I know where he is at. 2. It will let him know I know about his GF, that he keeps denying that he even has.
So, have I lost my mind ? It would be a total 180 for me. Because up till now I have been passive.
Mind.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
